A note about relationships.

My friend Brianna is friends with this guy on facebook, and he had a note on there that he had written. She had me read it, and I'm so grateful that I did. Here it is:

guys,

think for a moment how many beautiful women you have seen in your life. for most of you, your answer will be 'a bunch'. for the rest of you, the answer will be 'too many to remember'.

I know theres other things you want in a woman (maturity, emotional stability etc), but in general the first item on the checklist is physical attractiveness.

girls,

now i want you to think of how many guys you have met in your life that really had their life together. (knows what he wants, knows where hes going, mature, NOT a mamas boy wussbag, a so-called 'real man'.)

for most of you girls, the answer will be 'a few', and for some of you the answer will be 'could count on one hand'.

and again, theres other things you look for, cuz of course you want a good lookin man, but for girls this is generally most important.

let that sink in for a minute...back to the guys for a sec, think about those times that you've seen a beautiful girl.....remember how much it stands out? how obvious it is that you are looking at someone sensational? and no matter what you were doing, you always stop and get a good look, am I right?

just think about a womans experience when she spots a 'real man'. considering how rare that really is....beautiful women are plentiful, since all that requires is being born. a real man is made on purpose, by choice, and is very rare.

so guys, become real men.....while there are still some out there to learn from. your (future) girlfriends will thank you


On another note, I am so extremely grateful for the amazing friends that I have, and for each and every thing that they do for me. I have some of the most incredible people in my life, and for that I will be forever grateful.